Looking for people with a similar story

Background: kidney stone colic on March 18th, a stone blocking half of the ureteropelvic junction (UPJ), really major dilation of the kidney, normal kidney function, no infection, no fever. The urologist at the hospital told me we'd wait a month to give the stone a chance to move down on its own—painkillers and anti-inflammatories in the meantime. A month later, new scan, and the stone hadn't budged. Laser ureteroscopy 10 days later. The surgeon said the kidney was full of urine, really dilated. He pushed the stone back up into the kidney so he wouldn't have to treat it in the ureter. Stent placed for 8 days. I tolerated the stent really badly, and I thought I'd be free at last on removal day. It's been 6 days since I got it out. First two days: bladder pain, some blood on day one. The bladder pain didn't really go away, but I'm managing it with antispasmodics. Third day was fine. Fourth day, a big bladder spasm and I lost a bit of blood. Now we're at day 6 after removal and my flank hurts. The urologist wants me to check my kidney function tomorrow with a blood test. Anyone with a similar story? This is my only kidney and I'm so anxious… I'm only 40, my kids are little, and this is really hard to live through.