am i doomed (vegan)

okay ive posted here a billion times and im back. i had a ureteroscopy on march 9th removing 6 stones. calcium oxalate. earlier this month of april, i had a mental breakdown about animals and decided to go vegan lol.

so basically im now eating tons of the foods i shouldn’t. tofu, other soy, beans of all kinds, some spinach. i still avoid nuts for the most part. its also hard to pair these high oxalate foods with calcium since calcium is pretty difficult to find in vegan foods.

i refuse to not be vegan anymore (so plz dont suggest that) im just wondering like how doomed am i. im doing a 24 hr urine collection thing tomorrow so thats good. the good thing is im eating super healthy. i ate a LOT of junkfood before this (like ice cream, chips, and baked goods) and barely drank water. which is likely why i got the stones. but arent calcium oxalate stones solely due to oxalates and lack of water? so even if i drink a ton of water and dont eat junk, ill still get stones no matter what if im loading up on beans and tofu 24/7.

im 21 and dont really want to be stuck with stones ruining my life through my whole youth. this is so difficult.

EDIT: the tofu i eat has 60mg of calcium in it (not much) but still something??